Thanks Joanna, yes I have used Manual exposure but of the scenes I was trying to capture the DR was too great-that was the problem I couldn't overcome
I've been inveigled into teaching some sessions at our local photo club over here. It's been a very interesting challenge, especially having to do it all in French. Not only have I learned an awful lot of "photographic" French, I've also had to learn how to teach techniques I do automatically.
What is relevant here is to get to know the DR of your camera and use it to best advantage.
e.g. I have a Nikon D810 and always shoot in RAW. Nikon claim a 14 stop DR and, yes, it is possible but you do have to work to get that range.
To start with, I learnt that you should always expose for the highlights and recover the shadows in post processing. So the first thing I did was to shoot a sheet of textured white kitchen roll, taking a series of photos, incrementing the exposure by ⅓ stop each time, until the over-exposure markers started showing as being irrecoverable in DxO.
By doing this, I found that I could expose at 2 ⅔ over without blowing the highlights. So, now, I will find the "right" exposure by taking a spot reading on the highlight area and then manually adjust that upwards by 2 ⅔ stops.
This helps give you the widest possible range of shadow detail; in my case, realistically, I could retrieve around 9 stops below the "standard" exposure, without introducing too much noise in the deeper shadows.
Since what you see on the back of the camera is an "on the fly" jpeg image, which doesn't have the same DR as the RAW, things will look horrendously under-exposed. Don't panic! This is normal.
When you bring in your RAW images for stitching, you need to make sure you start with a flat, neutral setting. Then you need to recover the shadows on the darkest image, then do exactly the same adjustment to all the others.
You might need to make slight adjustments to some of the layers after stitching them in Photoshop but, on the whole things should be reasonably even.
Anyhow, that's what I do